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Sunday, December 31, 2017

Books to Read

My resolution for 2017 was to read 17 books in a year. I cheated a little bit because most of the books I “read” I actually listened to as audiobooks while I was cooking or doing other household tasks. Sitting down and reading 17 books was not very probable for me, but I enjoy listening to music or something while I cook and this way I can kill two birds with one stone!

Anyway, following is a list of the books that I read this year. You might notice that I don’t read much fiction. It’s not that I don’t enjoy fiction, but fiction has to be really good to get me interested and I wanted to focus on learning more this year rather than entertainment. The books fall into two broad categories (although a few could just as easily be both): Christian living and trying to understand life from other people’s perspectives. Where applicable, I included children’s books that fall into the same general themes so that you can introduce these topics to your kids, if you’re interested. All descriptions come from Amazon and my opinion of the book is my own. The list is sorted by topic and more or less in the order in which the books were read.

Christian Living
  1. Invitation to Solitude and Silence by Ruth Haley Barton
Much of our faith and practice is about words―preaching, teaching, talking with others. Yet all of these words are not enough to take us into the real presence of God where we can hear his voice. This book is an invitation to you to meet God deeply and fully outside the demands and noise of daily life. It is an invitation to solitude and silence. The beauty of a true invitation is that we really do have a choice about embarking on this adventure. God extends the invitation, but he honors our freedom and will not push himself where he is not wanted. Instead, he waits for us to respond from the depths of our desire. Will you say yes?

This book challenged me a lot as a person who likes to always be busy. IJM puts a lot of emphasis on stillness (part of our daily work routine) and solitude (each employee is given a day of solitude each year), and this book helped me see the importance of it in my personal life, as well.

      2. Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian in Community by Dietrich Bonhoeffer
In Life Together, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, renowned Christian minister, professor, and author of The Cost of Discipleship recounts his unique fellowship in an underground seminary during the Nazi years in Germany. Giving practical advice on how life together in Christ can be sustained in families and groups, Life Together is bread for all who are hungry for the real life of Christian fellowship.

We have been trying to add emphasis to living in community for several years now, but in a lot of ways I felt like we were flying by the seat of our pants a bit. This particular book challenged and encouraged me to continue to seek Christian community, and gave important ideas as to what it should and should not include.

      3. Reclaiming Hope: Lessons Learned in the Obama White House about the Future of Faith in America by Michael Wear
In this unvarnished account of faith inside the world's most powerful office, Michael Wear provides unprecedented insight into the highs and lows of working as a Christian in government. Reclaiming Hope is an insider's view of the most controversial episodes of the Obama administration, from the president's change of position on gay marriage and the transformation of religious freedom into a partisan idea, to the administration's failure to find common ground on abortion and the bitter controversy over who would give the benediction at the 2012 inauguration.
The book is also a passionate call for faith in the public square, particularly for Christians to see politics as a means of loving one's neighbor and of pursuing justice for all. Engrossing, illuminating, and at times provocative, Reclaiming Hope changes the way we think about the relationship of politics and faith.

This book was really eye-opening for me, and gave insight to some of the questions I had about events in the Obama administration. Really good read for any political persuasion.

       4. The Spirit of the Disciplines by Dallas Willard
Dallas Willard, one of today's most brilliant Christian thinkers and author of The Divine Conspiracy (Christianity Today's 1999 Book of the Year), presents a way of living that enables ordinary men and women to enjoy the fruit of the Christian life. He reveals how the key to self-transformation resides in the practice of the spiritual disciplines, and how their practice affirms human life to the fullest. The Spirit of the Disciplines is for everyone who strives to be a disciple of Jesus in thought and action as well as intention.

As a person who grew up in the Christian church, disciplines are a topic with which I am rather familiar. However, Dallas Willard adds some disciplines to the list that I had never considered before (celebration and remembrance being ones that stuck out the most to me). He also emphasizes that disciplines should be seen as training for the “big game”, instead of drudgeries to check off our to-do list.

        5. The Hole in Our Gospel by Richard Stearns
The Hole in Our Gospel is the compelling true story of a corporate CEO who set aside worldly success for something far more significant, and discovered the full power of the gospel of Jesus Christ to change his own life. He uses his journey to demonstrate how the gospel-the whole gospel-was always meant to be a world changing social revolution, a revolution that begins with us.

This one confirmed a lot of ideas and leadings that we had felt before we decided to do this fellowship with IJM. Our faith should lead us to change the world!

        6.  Unashamed by Lecrae
"If you live for people's acceptance, you'll die from their rejection." Two-time Grammy winning rap artist, Lecrae, learned this lesson through more than his share of adversity—childhood abuse, drugs and alcoholism, a stint in rehab, an abortion, and an unsuccessful suicide attempt. Along the way, Lecrae attained an unwavering faith in Jesus and began looking to God for affirmation. Now as a chart-topping industry anomaly, he has learned to ignore the haters and make peace with his craft. The rap artist holds nothing back as he divulges the most sensitive details of his life, answers his critics, shares intimate handwritten journal entries, and powerfully models how to be a Christian in a secular age. This is the story of one man's journey to faith and freedom.

Love Lecrae’s music, and was moved and inspired by his story!

        7.  Love Does by Bob Goff
As a college student he spent 16 days in the Pacific Ocean with five guys and a crate of canned meat. As a father he took his kids on a world tour to eat ice cream with heads of state. He made friends in Uganda, and they liked him so much he became the Ugandan consul. He pursued his wife for three years before she agreed to date him. His grades weren't good enough to get into law school, so he sat on a bench outside the Dean’s office for seven days until they finally let him enroll. Bob Goff has become something of a legend, and his friends consider him the world's best-kept secret. Those same friends have long insisted he write a book. What follows are paradigm shifts, musings, and stories from one of the world’s most delightfully engaging and winsome people. What fuels his impact? Love. But it's not the kind of love that stops at thoughts and feelings. Bob's love takes action. Bob believes Love Does.

Bob Goff is funny, inspiring, and courageous. One of my favorite reads of the year!

         8. The Dangerous Act of Loving Your Neighbor: Seeing Others through the Eyes of Jesus by Dr. Mark Labberton
Jesus didn't see a sick woman, he saw a daughter of God. He didn't see an outcast from society, he saw a child of Israel. He didn't see a sinner, he saw a person in the image of the Creator. Are we able to see others with the eyes of Jesus? Seeing rightly is the beginning of renewal, forgiveness, healing and grace. Seeing rightly, says Mark Labberton, is the beginning of how our hearts are changed. Through careful self-examination in the Spirit, we begin to bear the fruit of love toward others that can make a difference. Here is a chance to reflect on why our ordinary hearts can be complacent about the evils in the world and how we can begin to see the world like Jesus.

Really, really good book that challenged me to see others as Jesus sees them, and inspired me to love them as children of God.

         9. Toxic Charity: How Churches and Charities Hurt Those They Help, and How to Reverse It by Robert D. Lupton
Veteran urban activist Robert Lupton reveals the shockingly toxic effects that modern charity has upon the very people meant to benefit from it. Toxic Charity provides proven new models for charitable groups who want to help—not sabotage—those whom they desire to serve. Lupton, the founder of FCS Urban Ministries (Focused Community Strategies) in Atlanta, the voice of the Urban Perspectives newsletter, and the author of Compassion, Justice and the Christian Life, has been at the forefront of urban ministry activism for forty years. Now, in the vein of Jeffrey Sachs’s The End of Poverty, Richard Stearns’s The Hole in Our Gospel, and Gregory Boyle’s Tattoos on the Heart, his groundbreaking Toxic Charity shows us how to start serving needy and impoverished members of our communities in a way that will lead to lasting, real-world change.

I had heard some of these points before, but it was good to hear them from an expert and also hear about what he has learned from some of his personal failures.

         10. Raising an Original: Parenting Each Child According to their Unique God-Given Temperament by Julie Lyles Carr
In Raising an Original, Carr helps to redefine the primary purpose of Christian parenting, this raising of the next generation. God has given each of our children specific gifts, abilities and capacities for specific purposes and He can equip parents to discover and support those powerful personality traits if they know where to look and how to respond. So many kids raised in Christian homes launch into their adult lives without any sense of knowing who they are called to be or what their mission on earth is. What if parents, teachers or mentors could help them discover the wondrous, unique threads woven within them that will enable them to see their part in the fabric of God’s universe?

Lots of good parenting insights, especially as we parent our three VERY different children! This is a book that I will revisit every few years to help me stay on track as a parent.

Life from Other Perspectives
          11.  The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness by Michelle Alexander
This book directly challenges the notion that the election of Barack Obama signals a new era of colorblindness. With dazzling candor, legal scholar Michelle Alexander argues that "we have not ended racial caste in America; we have merely redesigned it." By targeting black men through the War on Drugs and decimating communities of color, the U.S. criminal justice system functions as a contemporary system of racial control—relegating millions to a permanent second-class status—even as it formally adheres to the principle of colorblindness.

I learned a lot from this book, and got many good suggestions for further reading. It’s a very intense read, and might take awhile to get through, but if you’ve read the whole thing I would love to dissect it with you!

          12.  Seeking Refuge: On the Shores of the Global Refugee Crisis by Stephan Bauman, Matthew Soerens, and Dr. Issam Smeir
We can’t ignore the refugee crisis—arguably the greatest geo-political issue of our time—but how do we even begin to respond to something so massive and complex? In Seeking Refuge, three experts from World Relief, a global organization serving refugees, offer a practical, well-rounded, well-researched guide to the issue. Drawing from history, public policy, psychology, many personal stories, and their own unique Christian worldview, the authors offer a nuanced and compelling portrayal of the plight of refugees and the extraordinary opportunity we have to love our neighbors as ourselves.

The stories in this book are so compelling. It’s a great source for more information on the refugee crisis and ways you might participate in bringing relief to the millions displaced.

           13. Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
In a profound work that pivots from the biggest questions about American history and ideals to the most intimate concerns of a father for his son, Ta-Nehisi Coates offers a powerful new framework for understanding our nation’s history and current crisis. Americans have built an empire on the idea of “race,” a falsehood that damages us all but falls most heavily on the bodies of black women and men—bodies exploited through slavery and segregation, and, today, threatened, locked up, and murdered out of all proportion. What is it like to inhabit a black body and find a way to live within it? And how can we all honestly reckon with this fraught history and free ourselves from its burden?

Profound read that gave me lots of questions to ponder. For me, a quicker and lighter read than The New Jim Crow, but equally compelling.

            14. The Aquariums of Pyongyang: Ten Years in the North Korean Gulag by Kang Chol-hwan and Pierre Rigoulot
North Korea's leaders have consistently kept a tight grasp on their one-party regime, quashing any nascent opposition movements and sending all suspected dissidents to its brutal concentration camps for "re-education." Kang Chol-Hwan is the first survivor of one of these camps to escape and tell his story to the world, documenting the extreme conditions in these gulags and providing a personal insight into life in North Korea. Part horror story, part historical document, part memoir, part political tract, this record of one man's suffering gives eyewitness proof to an ongoing sorrowful chapter of modern history.

This book was incredibly eye-opening to the horrors that have been happening in North Korea for decades. A hard, but important, read.

            15.  The Zookeeper’s Wife by Diane Ackerman
After their zoo was bombed, Polish zookeepers Jan and Antonina Zabinski managed to save over three hundred people from the Nazis by hiding refugees in the empty animal cages. With animal names for these "guests," and human names for the animals, it's no wonder that the zoo's code name became "The House Under a Crazy Star." Best-selling naturalist and acclaimed storyteller Diane Ackerman combines extensive research and an exuberant writing style to re-create this fascinating, true-life story―sharing Antonina's life as "the zookeeper's wife," while examining the disturbing obsessions at the core of Nazism.

A really interesting read, as the author weaves true events with speculation as to what thoughts and feelings the Zabinskis might have had as they secretly resisted Nazism.

          Children’s introduction to fighting evil in World War II: The Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom
          Corrie ten Boom was a Dutch watchmaker who became a heroine of the Resistance, a survivor of Hitler's concentration camps, and one of the most remarkable evangelists of the twentieth century. In World War II she and her family risked their lives to help Jews and underground workers escape from the Nazis, and for their work they were tested in the infamous Nazi death camps. Only Corrie among her family survived to tell the story of how faith ultimately triumphs over evil.

             16.  Hillbilly Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis by J.D. Vance
Hillbilly Elegy is a passionate and personal analysis of a culture in crisis—that of white working-class Americans. The decline of this group, a demographic of our country that has been slowly disintegrating over forty years, has been reported on with growing frequency and alarm, but has never before been written about as searingly from the inside. J. D. Vance tells the true story of what a social, regional, and class decline feels like when you were born with it hung around your neck.

Incredibly interesting read! Insightful look into a community that doesn’t get much discussion from the larger culture.

             17.  Let Justice Roll Down by John M. Perkins
His brother died in his arms, shot by a deputy marshall. He was beaten and tortured by the sheriff and state police. But through it all he returned good for evil, love for hate, progress for prejudice, and brought hope to black and white alike. The story of John Perkins is no ordinary story. Rather, it is a gripping portrayal of what happens when faith thrusts a person into the midst of a struggle against racism, oppression, and injustice. It is about the costs of discipleship--the jailings, the floggings, the despair, the sacrifice. And it is about the transforming work of faith that allowed John to respond to such overwhelming indignities with miraculous compassion, vision, and hope.

This is an intimate telling of Dr. Perkins’ incredible life story, and revealed a lot about what life was like for people of color in the 1900s. Highly recommend!!

          Children’s introduction to life for people of color in the 1900s: The Watsons Go to Birmingham--1963 by Christopher Paul Curtis
          Enter the hilarious world of ten-year-old Kenny and his family, the Weird Watsons of Flint, Michigan. There's Momma, Dad, little sister Joetta, and brother Byron, who's thirteen and an "official juvenile delinquent." When Byron gets to be too much trouble, they head South to Birmingham to visit Grandma, the one person who can shape him up. And they happen to be in Birmingham when Grandma's church is blown up.

           And Maniac Magee by Jerry Spinelli
           Jeffrey Lionel "Maniac" Magee might have lived a normal life if a freak accident hadn't made him an orphan. After living with his unhappy and uptight aunt and uncle for eight years, he decides to run--and not just run away, but run. This is where the myth of Maniac Magee begins, as he changes the lives of a racially divided small town with his amazing and legendary feats.

Do you have a resolution for 2018? Do you have a book that I should add to my “To Read” list? Wishing you joy and peace in the new year! 

Sunday, November 19, 2017

Yangon with Kids


My motivation to write this post is the lack of information I found online about traveling to Myanmar with kids. Typically, when we take a visa run, I spend many hours researching all the possible places we could go and comparing costs and activities. While I found lots of resources about how to travel in Myanmar, almost none of it included traveling with children. Now, our children are great travelers and don’t require many adjustments as compared to adult travelers, but it is useful to know how other children have enjoyed a location, especially if I haven’t been there myself.

Family pic at Shwedagon Pagoda
Some people might be reluctant to travel to Myanmar at all, given the country’s historic unrest and its very recent opening to visitors. The unrest certainly continues in certain areas, especially as related to the Rohingya. (You can learn more about that HERE and HERE.) However, we did not feel unsafe at all while we were in Yangon. We found the people of Myanmar to be extremely friendly and welcoming. Many were curious when they saw us because there are not many Western visitors, especially families with young children. We never felt threatened in any way, though, even when walking through areas of town that some might label as slums.

Our family only traveled to Yangon, so we can’t offer any advice as to how children would do in other popular cities like Mandalay Bay or Bagan, but we enjoyed our few days in the former colonial capital. These are some of the activities and sights that might be of interest to you if you’re considering visiting Yangon, with or without children.

We arrived in Yangon on a Saturday afternoon. We took advantage of our hotel’s free shuttle to the famous Shwedagon Pagoda and visited the nearby People’s Park. I highly recommend visiting People’s Park, even if you don’t have children, because it is a beautiful space. If you’re traveling with kids, they will enjoy the airplane and train engine that you can visit inside the park, as well as the treehouse bridges that you can walk across and get beautiful views of both the park and the nearby pagoda.

Treehouse Bridges at People's Park
Shwedagon Pagoda is just across from People’s Park, and you can easily walk there after touring the park. I had read that the pagoda is best to visit at night because it can be very hot during the day, and because all the gold around the pagoda is especially beautiful in the evening. We grabbed dinner at a market near the park and then toured the pagoda. We were fortunate to see a guide as we entered the upper area of the pagoda, and he took us on a tour lasting over an hour. We paid for this tour (10,000 kyat per adult, or about $7.35), but we felt the cost was more than worth it since we learned a lot more from our guide than we would have known by simply walking around the premises ourselves.

We have been to many, many Buddhist temples, and in some ways this pagoda is not too different from others we’ve visited. It is considered the most important pagoda in Myanmar, though, and is visited by thousands of people each year. It’s substantially larger than other pagodas we’ve been to, and certainly one of the most impressive Buddhist sites we’ve seen. Our guide also told us about several of the side temples and their significance, and about the history of the largest pagoda, which was built over many years. I would recommend seeing this particular pagoda, even if you think you’ve seen all the Buddhist sites already.

View of Shwedagon Pagoda from People's Park
Since we traveled to Yangon over the weekend, we were able to attend church on Sunday morning with some Burmese believers. It was amazing to attend Immanuel Baptist Church, one of the oldest buildings in the city, and worship with believers who are a very small minority in their country. Their church has several services in different languages, so if you want to attend the English service, be sure to go at 8:30am.

After church we took a walk through the area adjacent to it, which is Maha Bandula Park, surrounded by Sule Pagoda, City Hall, Immanuel Baptist Church, and Yangon Region Court. Once our stroll through the park was complete, we headed down toward the river and Strand Street to eat lunch at the Strand Hotel. The Strand Hotel dates back to colonial Burma, and is over one hundred years old. The inside of the hotel is gorgeous, and it would have been worth it just to see the unique architecture and decorations. There is also a fine dining restaurant and smaller cafe, where you can get some delicious food. We chose to eat lunch at the smaller cafe, and were not disappointed in any way. Scott and I ordered some Burmese dishes and the kids ordered Western food. It was all amazing! The portions are very large, especially for the price, and we ended up taking enough home to eat for dinner the next day.

Maha Bandula Park
On our last full day in Yangon we intended to visit the National Museum, but since it was closed we went to the Yangon Zoo. It was a nice way to spend the morning since our kids love animals, but if you are not used to how animals are treated in non-Western countries, you may want to skip it. That afternoon we took a ride on the famous Circle Train, in part because our boys love trains, and because I wanted to get a closer look at how people live outside of downtown.

Some of my research about the Circle Train said that it got derailed often and was not terribly reliable. That was not our experience; we rode the train for about half an hour and didn’t have any problems. The entire journey takes about three hours, so perhaps those malfunctions happen later in the ride. The train is open air, with a few bench seats along the sides, but many people stand or even sit along the steps that are used to enter and exit the train cars. If you are used to traveling in various cities in Southeast Asia, this will not be a big deal to you. If you are thinking about trains in Japan before you get on the Circle Train, you will be disappointed. Also be aware that the train goes in two directions, but only leaves from each station at long intervals (maybe every 1.5 hours), so it’s worth asking about the train schedule at your hotel if you can. Otherwise, you might be sitting at Central Station for a long time waiting for your train. I would recommend knowing where you want to exit before you get on because the train does not stop for long at each station after Central Station, and there will not be much time for deliberation before the train moves on.

Circle Train leaving the station
We exited the train at Byak Htau Station and walked briefly through the local neighborhood. We decided to take a taxi to Inya Lake, since the sun was getting ready to set and we wanted to get some good views of the sun setting over the lake. You might want to take a taxi either way, since they are very cheap and it would be a considerable walk to the lake from that station.

We arrived at Inya Lake just before sunset and took a stroll along the lake’s edge. There is a nice walking/running/biking trail there, and it was full of people exercising. There are also a few food carts at the entrance if you want to grab a bite to eat. We ended up walking quite a ways around the lake, and even inadvertently walked past State Counsellor Aung San Suu Kyi’s house where she stayed on house arrest for almost 15 years. (There’s not much to see except the outside of the house. My understanding is that she does not spend much time there these days.) We ended our evening at a delicious Japanese restaurant called Fuji House Cafe and Restaurant. It’s located near the U.S. embassy, in case you are there and need a good place to eat for lunch.

Sunset over Inya Lake
My only regret from our trip was that we were not able to visit the National Museum. I had read that it is a great place to learn more about the history of Myanmar, learn about some of the people groups who live within its borders, and to see some important art and artifacts. Unfortunately, the museum was closed the day that we tried to go, which was also our last day in Yangon. There are varying reports online as to when the museum is open, but one of our hotel’s employees called for us, and assured us that it is usually open, just not on Mondays.

Here are some things to consider if you are thinking about traveling to Yangon: it’s not as modern as other SE Asian cities like Chiang Mai, Kuala Lumpur, Singapore, etc. It’s also not nearly as expensive. If you’re okay with taking taxis everywhere, you’ll be fine in Yangon. There is a public bus system, but the only information I could find about it, both online and in the city, was in Burmese. However, taxis are very inexpensive, and I would recommend using them since you can go exactly to your desired location without having to wait on a bus route. If you don’t speak Burmese, it may be hard to eat at some local places. Our family likes to dine local whenever possible, but the couple of times we tried to eat at a small roadside restaurant in Yangon, the menus were only in Burmese and none of the staff spoke English. English is certainly not as prevalent there as in other cities, but other than eating we didn’t have any problems with communication.

We thoroughly enjoyed our long weekend in Yangon, and would recommend it to any traveler, with children or without. If you travel to Bagan or Mandalay Bay with children, please let us know about your experience!

Wednesday, October 4, 2017

Made from Scratch

Since moving to Thailand, I’ve had to learn how to make do without certain food items that I would usually use to cook. Often this isn’t really a big deal, especially since there is so much delicious Thai food with which to fill that void. However, after being here for more than a year, there are some things that we just would rather not live without.

This has forced me to make some things from scratch that, previously, I would simply purchase already made or use a pre-packaged mix. Here are some recipes that I’ve found to be both easy and delicious!



When we lived in the U.S. we ate pancakes quite frequently; they were a weekend favorite! I had made some specialty pancakes from scratch (like these banana pancakes and these apple pie pancakes--so good!), but for regular pancakes had generally used a mix. We can get pancake mix here, but it’s significantly more expensive than just making our own. This mix is easy to make up ahead of time; I usually double it and put it in a gallon ziploc bag. Then you can just use as much as you need when you’re ready to make your pancakes!


Waffles

As you can see, we LOVE eating breakfast food! In fact, we’ll eat it for breakfast, lunch, dinner, or a snack. Last year we ate mostly pancakes because we didn’t have a waffle iron. This summer I got some money for my birthday, so we decided to spend it on a waffle maker. Best birthday present ever! Now we get to eat our beloved waffles whenever we want. We’ve even discovered other uses for it, like making cookies or grilled cheese sandwiches--Yum!

Anyway, I had never made waffles from scratch before, so I tried out this recipe. It’s so easy to put together, uses ingredients you probably already have in your kitchen, and tastes great!

(Recipe is originally from Cuisinart)
Ingredients:
2 cups all-purpose flour
2 tablespoons granulated sugar
1 tablespoon baking powder
½ teaspoon salt
1 ¾ cups milk
6 tablespoons vegetable oil
2 large eggs

Instructions:
Place all ingredients in a large mixing bowl and combine until well blended and smooth. Let batter sit five minutes. Use ¼ cup each side of a rectangular waffle maker, or 1 cup in a circular one.

Grilled cheese via the waffle maker!


Another worthwhile purchase was our slow cooker. When we first moved to Thailand we only planned to spend a year here, and I didn’t want to spend a bunch of money on kitchen appliances that we would only use for a short time. Once we decided to stay for a second year, however, I decided that a slow cooker would be a good purchase. It has been life-changing! We study Thai one evening (and on Saturday morning) every week, and getting dinner ready, eaten, and cleaned up before 6 was a bit of a rush. The slow cooker has made that so much easier!

Of course I had a slow cooker in the U.S., so I already have loads of recipes ready to use once we made that purchase. Something I didn’t know you could make in the slow cooker, though, was black beans! I had always bought them canned because I didn’t have a pressure cooker and thought that was the only real way to cook them. Plus, with cans just a few cents each, why not just buy them? Going a full year without black beans was a sad time for our family, though, because it’s a staple in our diet. So, I searched Pinterest for a good slow cooker black bean recipe, and now there’s no going back! Cooking the beans in the slow cooker was soooo easy, the flavor was great, and I can cook a bag of dried beans (which produces about 3.5 cans worth) for only $1! Once they’re cooked you can measure out the usual amount you need for a recipe (I did about the same as one can, since that’s what a lot of my recipes call for anyway) and put it in a freezer bag. Thaw them in the refrigerator for a bit before you put them in your recipe, and BOOM!



Enchiladas are a favorite in our family. We can get tortillas rather easily here (I’ve made my own before but I just don’t have the time/space to at this stage in life), but I had trouble finding canned enchilada sauce, so we just didn’t eat any for the first year. This year, though, I decided I didn’t want to live without enchiladas any more, so when a friend recommended this recipe, I went for it! Honestly, it’s one of the easiest things to make, and it tastes even better than the canned version! I made the recipe as-is the first time, but our kids found it a bit too spicy for their liking, so in the future I’m going to halve the amount of chili powder.



Who doesn’t love a good caramel sauce (whether you pronounce it car-mel or car-a-mel)? It is one of my favorite things about fall, but it just isn’t easy to find here. Scott likes fruit crisps for dessert, so I made this Caramel Apple Crisp a couple of times. The crisp would be good without the sauce, but the sauce adds so much!! I was nervous about making caramel because I don’t have a candy thermometer or anything and our stove doesn’t hold at a specific temperature very well. You don’t have to really worry about those with this recipe, though. Pro tip: it tastes really good with vanilla ice cream!



This recipe is from the Nestle website, and it’s the one I’ve been using for the last year plus. I had made my own crust before in the States, but I wasn’t very good at it and it was so much easier to just buy a crust from the store. I’ve had good luck with this particular recipe, though, and now making crust from scratch is rather easy! Last year I put the crust together using a fork or two knives, but while we were in Indiana this summer I made a point to dig out my pastry cutter. Makes it much easier to pull it all together!

Scott's birthday pie--Dutch apple!

Maybe you’re like me and are living in a new environment that doesn’t offer all the food items you’re used to, or maybe you’re just trying to get away from using processed foods. These recipes are all easy to make with easy-to-find ingredients. Enjoy!

Monday, August 21, 2017

What a Difference a Year Makes

We finally feel re-settled back in Chiang Mai after a wonderful summer in Indiana. Our transition this year has been a lot smoother than last year, in part because everything feels much more familiar this year than last. Our house, car, neighborhood, jobs, church, friends, etc. were waiting for us to come back and we were able to pick up more or less like we had never been gone. I’ve been reflecting this week on how different things were for us at this time last year. Even though there are certainly things that are not easy about our life here, there are many ways in which our life has become much more manageable.


First Day of School 2016 and 2017



One year ago this month we started learning Thai, which has made a huge difference for us. Before learning Thai, we would get nervous every time someone came to our house unexpected because we didn’t know how to communicate with them and ask why they were there or what they needed. Recently, a policeman and our neighborhood security guard stopped by late at night. Scott was able to hold a conversation with them, ascertaining what they were looking for and assuring them we didn’t have it. I can’t imagine how nerve-racking that would have been without knowing any Thai. We’re able to have basic conversations with many of our neighbors, too, which makes us feel more at home in Chiang Mai.


We’ve also spent the last year working on completing all the paperwork needed to live and work here legally. It’s required some significant hoop jumping, but we finally have all the key documentation. This doesn’t necessarily affect our day-to-day lives, but it gives us a lot of peace of mind in case we were ever stopped by police or questioned by immigration. Additionally, it allows us to travel more freely and, hopefully, more cheaply this coming year.


Through the generosity of some of our friends who have left Chiang Mai, we’ve acquired several key items that have helped make our life more comfortable. A few of these include: a toaster, cooking supplies, a comforter that covers our whole bed (!!), and an extra blanket and pillows for X’s room which will allow us to host visitors (hint, hint). We’ve also been able to make some key purchases to help us feel more organized and alleviate some stress. We found a slow cooker which helps me spend less time stressing about dinner on days that we study Thai. Our landlord agreed to pay for half of a kitchen cabinet, which we found on clearance. Having the cabinet means we can store food more easily and longer-term, and it has a small counter so that I can prep food a lot more quickly. It also allows us to use the plastic set of drawers that we were using in the kitchen as a homeschool/craft storage area, which means we don’t have to have as many piles of stuff sitting around the house. My OCD-self is super thankful for that!


Our new kitchen cabinet!


When we arrived here a year ago, we were basically in survival mode, trying to purchase as little as possible to get through a year. Now that we have experienced living here for a whole year, we know what we can still live without and what would truly make life easier. We’re thankful to everyone who has prayed for our documentation, donated to our family to allow us to make some purchases, and has been so encouraging to us over our first year in Thailand. We are looking forward to another year, especially with all these added comforts!